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Fri, 04 Apr 2008 15:27:46 +0000

[...] Lonely Girl, Lonely and Blue by NotSoJenny [...]

By: FRM

FRM — Fri, 04 Apr 2008 14:57:26 +0000

Hmm… sometimes my comments stick…sometimes they don’t.

I’ll try again.

Two words:

NKOTB Sleepover.

By: Matt

Matt — Fri, 04 Apr 2008 14:15:22 +0000

My suggestion is to do anything. Whatever you want to do, or have been meaning to do- do it! The weather is supposed to be beautiful so I suggest doing it outside.

And if that fails…Golf. :)

By: FRM

FRM — Fri, 04 Apr 2008 13:54:58 +0000

Maybe you can round up some of the girlfriends…even though you said you don’t really have your own and have a sleepover.

Find S and ask her to pull out the NKOTB sleeping bag :)

By: littlespoon

littlespoon — Fri, 04 Apr 2008 13:17:27 +0000

I’m the one that goes away in the relationship. I always feel so bad for my husband. I can’t even begin to imagine what he does to pass the time when I’m away :)

By: magda

magda — Fri, 04 Apr 2008 04:19:40 +0000

Over the year and a half that J and I have been dating, I’ve gone on FOUR business trips. He’s gone on none. It didn’t seem like such a big thing to me; of course I missed him, but I was really busy and stressed and the time just seemed to fly. He went away for the first time this year, for a long weekend to visit friends–and really, I felt destitute. I don’t know how he did it.

I planned ahead and was looking forward to some serious me-time. I picked out some new recipes to try, I watched some girly movies, and I planned a night out with some of my college friends. Ok, that’s kind of a lie; it planned itself and conveniently happened over that weekend. But still, it was a good distraction. I also got some paperwork and organizing out of the way that I feel bad about doing when J’s around, but needs to get done just the same.

I think the key is to have an agenda. If you have nothing concrete to accomplish, you’ll end up lonelier than before. Good luck, and store up some good M-time this weekend!